Seasoned Parents Share Their Most 'Pro Parent Tip' That You Can't Find In A Book

Seasoned Parents Share Their Most 'Pro Parent Tip' That You Can't Find In A Book

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replace it right away (when they're toddlers and up) let them realize the consequences of their actions.

Listen to them. Even if they sound ridiculous. If they're saying it with enthusiasm, indulge them. Teach them that what they have to say is important and that you care.

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6. Having kids is a fitness bootcamp

Get in shape before having kids.

They are giant balls of energy that you will constantly have to chase after. Also, your energy levels are going to be taxed so much after having kids.

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7. Don't beat yourself up if you don't stick to the plan

Do what works for you, until it doesn't. For example, you might go into it expecting to be an attachment parent, and find out that you and your kid both hate that. Or maybe it works for awhile, and then randomly it doesn't anymore. So I would say being willing to change and go with the flow is really important and something I wish I better understood at the beginning.

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8. If you take care of yourself, you will be able to take care of others

Make sure your own needs are met first. You can't do a good job parenting if you're totally frazzled from being on-call 24/7. Take breaks when you need them.

This past weekend, my wife and I and both kids were ill. The 1.5 year old was super-cranky and completely unreasonable. So we broke our TV limit rule, and basically used the TV as a babysitter while we rested.

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9. Sometimes love means doing the hard thing

They aren't stupid, they're inexperienced.

Be honest.

No matter what, love them. But sometimes love means doing the hard thing.

Your job is to raise them, not be their best friend.

It's easy to forget your partner or just get stuck in a rut. Don't. You are still people with needs. Make time for each other. Doesn't have to be fancy, but it needs to be there.

People will want to help and you won't want them to. Then you'll want help but people won't want to. Take presents, let people baby sit, eat their food, etc.

Enjoy it because it's the most wonderful thing you'll ever do, and once you get there you'll realize all the anxiety beforehand was pointless, you'll know what to do, and it'll be great.

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10. Accept help from others

Accept help when someone offers it... watching the baby so you could sleep or shower.. bringing you some cooked food. Say yes. You can't do it alone.

Also, tell your significant other that (Continued)


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