"My best friend and I are more than just friends. We've carried on an intimate relationship which was both physically and emotionally intimate for years. This has gone on for longer than both of our current relationships. We're both women. She is absolutely the love of my life, but I'm unsure if I'm hers. I'd probably leave my current relationship if she were to ask me to. I go back and forth on whether or not she'd leave hers, but my gut says that she wouldn't. It doesn't matter anyway because there are other life circumstances outside of our relationships that would probably get in the way of us even considering it. We don't really talk about it."