Don’t Be Joe From “You”
Alright, starting this one off with the obvious. While it is an excellent book, “You” is not to be taken literally. If you’re freakishly obsessed with a someone you talked to for 5 minutes one time, maybe take a step back and analyze if it’s a genuine connection or not. Don’t be creepy. No one likes aggressive pick-up lines that teeter-totter into harassment. People pick up on vibes! Just be yourself and make genuine conversation.
Take A Risk!
If you do feel you have a genuine connection with someone, don’t be afraid to take the risk.
“Make eye contact, smile at them, and ask if you can join them (for coffee). If they say no, just smile and say, “All right, have a good one.” Keep it casual and relaxed, and don’t make a big deal about it either way.” – RandianHero
While taking a risk can be scary, getting out of your comfort-zone helps create new opportunities.