(Content has been edited for clarity) These people have discovered their partner not remaining loyal to them...but karma will always get the cheaters, in the end!
She Felt Like He Didn’t Care About The Relationship
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“I cheated on my ex at the beginning of our relationship. I was madly in love and just wanted to hang out with him, but he would find an excuse every night, and in the morning I would find out he would go out with his friends, so I thought he wasn’t that serious about ‘us.’ This same occurrence went on for two months. I went to a party and got super wasted. I saw a male friend and we started making out, then I asked him to come to my place, where we slept together.
Fast forward two weeks. My boyfriend started to give me a lot of attention, taking me everywhere, never letting me go, and being really sweet overall. When I thought things were going to start working out, here it comes. An IM on his Yahoo messenger, with photos of me making out with that guy at that party, with a long description of our conversations and a lot of insults at me. My boyfriend came over and confronted me, telling me he wanted to break up. I confessed.
After a week, he came back and we tried to make it work. We moved to another country to start fresh, but he started to be really abusive, hitting me and insulting me, reminding me every day of what I had done and that I deserved everything that came my way. I wanted to leave, but he made sure I cut ties with my family and friends 2,000km away, so I was stuck in a boring place for three years, working two jobs and paying bills for him to stay home and play League of Legends.
I left a year ago, telling him I was going to visit my mom in Germany for five days. I didn’t plan on leaving for good, but after I got home, I just called him to tell him I was gonna stay here and asked him to send all my stuff. He did. He then proceeded to stalk me for about six months and begged me to go back to him; he told me that things will be better.
If you cheat, just break up with the person you are with. Don’t mess them up like I did, because you don’t know what kind of person you have by your side. Maybe I deserved everything that came in my way, all the starving, the beatings, the insults, and being thrown out of the house during rainy nights just because he had another ‘dream’ about those photos.
I learned a lot from that; I was 17 when it all started, so I can say I wasn’t very clever. I am currently in a relationship with a wonderful person who I would never betray. I still have panic attacks and dream a lot about those days, so I can say I learned my lesson.”
Snapchat Spilled The Beans!
“Back in the day, Snapchat used to tell you the top three friends of any of your friends. I saw that I was number one, her best friend was number three, and some dude co-worker was number two. I later logged into her Voxer account and was able to hear conversations between her and said dude, where she’d say things like she can’t wait to run her hands through his hair. Then the pinnacle when he asked her if his stuff tasted different after drinking a pineapple Monster energy drink. She said she doesn’t usually taste it, just swallows it, and that she’ll have to pay more attention next time.
I confronted her and she told me I was taking it out of context. Yeah, because that’s a normal conversation between male and female coworkers.”
She Clearly Never Got Over Her Ex-Boyfriend…
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“My roommate and his high school sweetheart were together for seven years. They were engaged and were buying things for the wedding. She was also seeing her ex on the side for four and a half months.
In that time, she took her bridesmaids to get the dresses for the wedding, (that they each paid for), picked their honeymoon location (that my roommate’s mom paid for), and a few other things you would do if you were serious about getting married. Like buying a house together.
One of my roommate’s friends saw the fiance was out on a date with her ex from high school. Apparently, this dude was a total creep when my roommate and she had first gotten together and had gotten a few beatings in high school because of it.
My roommate’s friend told him about the date. My roommate found out how long it’d been going on and flipped out. She got kicked out of the house and dumped. Her family came the next day to get her stuff.
Fast forward eight months to now. My roommates and his brother are gonna go to Mexico for a week starting tomorrow since the honeymoon is already paid for.”
They Watched The Guy Sneak Into The House!
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“My brother caught his wife. Her phone would always go off and she would hide it. He got curious, looked into it, and found some guy had been texting her for a few months. She said she was going to stay home because she had to catch up on homework over the weekend. My brother and I went on our hunting trip and he told me about it.
We never left the city, we went to my house and stayed there till it got dark, then drove back to his neighborhood in my neighbor’s car. She sent him a picture of her at home saying she was going to go to bed early that night. Well, we snuck up close to the house after we saw a car park down the street and a guy walked up to the house and let himself in.
My brother was fuming at this point and wanted to beat the crap out of the guy. I settled him down and told him to think about the long run. We snuck up to the house and, using the night vision camera, got video of them in the living room. My brother wanted to confront this guy at this point so I did something messed up. I called the cops and said I heard a lot of yelling from the house, then I asked if they could go check. It kept my brother from messing with the dude (a coworker of hers).
Cops showed up and took statements. We left and the next day, he pulled her iMessages off the email account and talked to a lawyer. We gave the lawyer the messages and when we showed up five days later from our ‘hunting trip,’ he called her and said he got something and wanted her to come out and see it.
When she comes out, he gave her divorce papers and kicked her out of the house. She had the police do a civil standby while she got her stuff a few days later. The house was his before they got married, so all she got to keep was some stuff they’d bought together and her car. There were no kids and the prenup nulled any alimony she could have gotten as he made way more money than her.
The guy she was sleeping with had a record. We saw her a few months later, she tried talking to my wife. She said she missed my brother and she was sorry. She and the guy broke up shortly after the divorce.”
When He Learned About Her Infidelity, He Kept It Cool
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“I caught my wife by not panicking and allowing enough time for there to be irrefutable evidence.
We were driving home one day and she got a text message from a coworker, I could see the name, but she snatched it real fast, which was the first clue.
I looked at her phone and got the coworker’s number. I then started reviewing phone bills and noticed the texts between them. I went back to her phone and noticed the vast majority have been deleted based on what the bill said was sent/received.
So I waited and I bought myself a new phone. I then asked her if I could use her phone to get pictures off of it. I was actually making a back up of it.
Then, I used software to recover deleted messages.
If you suspect your significant other of cheating, do not panic. Don’t accuse them, either. This gives them hints that you are aware of something going on and they will adapt accordingly. If you let them get comfortable and think they have this down, they usually always make a mistake that exposes themselves. This is what I have found from my experience and others.”
That’s What She Gets For Cheating On Him Like That!
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“My ex, many moons ago, was a freaking idiot.
She knew that I had many friends that lived in the same neighborhood as her ex that she had left a couple months before dating me. She always told me she was going to a girl friend’s house to study, and I had no reason not to believe her. Until one day she wouldn’t answer a single text. Now, I’m not the kind of guy to text a billion times. I’ll text you, then if you don’t reply, MAYBE I’ll text you 2-3 hours later to make sure you got my last message, and if you still don’t answer, then, ‘Meh,’ I’ll talk to you when you feel like you want to talk.
So anyway, I was at my friend’s house later that night, having not gotten a reply from her since maybe 12 hours ago. I and the group of friends decided to go outside in his backyard to make a pit fire. That’s when I noticed her car in the driveway of the house behind us. I didn’t know it was her ex’s house, but it was the way wrong neighborhood for her girlfriend’s house.
I called her sister up and said, ‘Where is your sister?’
She said, ‘Oh, she’s at (name of the girl’s house).’
‘Well, I’m going freaking nuts, then, because I’m looking at her car now and this isn’t (girl’s name)’s neighborhood.’
Her response to that was, ‘Uh…’ So I hung up and asked my friend, who lived in the house we were all hanging out at, who owned the house behind him. ‘Oh, that’s (her ex-boyfriend’s name)’s house.’
I called her phone to find it was off. So I just chilled the rest of my time there and paid it no more attention, no sense in worrying at this point it’s a done deal. About two hours later, I got a call from her saying the phone was on silent for ‘study purposes’ and she asked me if I wanted to come pick her up from her place. ‘Sure,’ I told her.
I arrived at the house a little bit after that and she hopped in the car. As soon as she shut the door, I asked, ‘How was studying?’ he gives me some dumb answer, like I didn’t know. After she’s done spewing her lie, I said, ‘Weird. Must have been a long walk from (ex boyfriend)’s house.’ I made sure to look at her face as I said it so that I could see any expression. She knew I knew, but wouldn’t let it go. It will go quicker if I just give you the dialogue:
‘We were just talking things out…’
‘Why would it be ok to just go over there to do that if you have a boyfriend? Talk things out? What needs to be talked out?’
‘We’ve been friends for a very long time before dating. I can’t just stop talking to him.’
‘So to get around that, you feel it’s logical to lie to me about going to your girl friend’s house? It’s 11 pm, and you’ve been talking it out since 10 am. I’ve tried getting a hold of you a couple times, too.’ Silence for a bit… ‘So what did you guys do?’
She wouldn’t answer or look at me. I told her to get out of the car and just pulled off.
She broke up with him the first time because he was physically abusive and seemed to not really want to do anything with himself.
About a year after I drove off, she called me, asking if we could try to make it work again and if I’d like to get together for dinner. So I said ‘Yes,’ and arranged a date at a fairly upscale place for Saturday at 8 pm. I told her the dress code and all, since it was a snazzy joint.
I’m not sure how long she sat there because I. Didn’t. Freaking. Go.”
The Cheater Who Got Cheated On…
“I have two. One, I was the cheater; one, my ex-girlfriend was the cheater.
First, me: I had started loosely dating/seeing a girl I was really into. She and I clicked; she was gorgeous and smart and fun. I hoped to turn our couple flings into an actual relationship. Well, she delayed taking that step, and I hooked up with another girl. Fast forward: She, me, and a couple of my friends were hanging out in my apartment. My friend was sitting at the computer when it chimed, ‘You have a message.’ My friend asked, ‘Can I read this aloud in a funny voice?’ The message came from a friend of the girl I had hooked up with, telling me she had a great time and wanted to meet again, but she had lost my number. My friend was reading aloud in this cartoonish voice, and it didn’t seem to hit him until 2/3 through what he was reading. It was very, very awkward. The girl I was trying to date wasn’t angry, but that ship sailed.
Second, my ex: We dated for about four years, lived together for a time but went back to separate living at some point. Fidelity and trust issues were frequent. At the end, she lived with two roommates. One of those roommates had a little pug type dog that always wanted sit on and lick people. Also, it frequently hung out in my ex’s room, because its owner wasn’t home very often. As the ex and I were going to sleep, spooning. The pug came and tried to snuggle itself between her and me. My ex said, ‘Gawd, this dog always wants to get right between when you’re trying to cuddle!’ I hadn’t slept over at her house for about two months, and the dog had never done that when I was around before. Never got a sincere confirmation of the truth, but I did get out.”
He Took Photographic Evidence To Show Her That He Was Aware Of Everything
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“My wife and I started getting distant from each other. We had planned a trip to see my grandparents who live a few states away.
A month before the planned trip, she told me that she wanted to cancel it and go to a family reunion on her side of the family in a completely different state and that she wanted to go alone and not bring our kids. I thought it was weird because wouldn’t you want to introduce your kids to the family they never see? Like I said, we were growing distant so I just said, ‘Okay, fine. Go.’ Maybe the time apart will be good for us.
She came back and suddenly wanted to move across the county to ‘go work at a hospital job that her distant aunt had offered her.’ Didn’t even ask me if I was willing to go. I told her, ‘You do whatever it is you need to do to be you, but you’re not taking the kids.’
After a few days, she realized that she couldn’t leave and not see the kids, so she begged me to forgive her. I did.
Over the next month, we became more distant than we were before all this had happened. I took lunch at work and decided to go home for it (which I never do). When I got home, there was nobody there, so I decided to go through her computer (which I also never do). I found pictures of her with some guy she had met on Zynga poker who lived in (guess where) the state that her supposed family reunion was! I’d never had a panic attack until this day. I had to call my neighbor and have him sit with me because I legit thought I was having a heart attack.
I took pictures of everything I found, other pictures, emails, and Facebook messages. I waited until the kids were in bed (I refuse to fight and scream in front of them) and laid all my pictures out there for her to see.
Not a fun day.”
How Dare He Treat His Pregnant Girlfriend Like That!
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“My ex and I had an ‘oopsie’ pregnancy early in our relationship. I was suspicious he was cheating, but could never prove it since I didn’t snoop through his stuff.
I ended up miscarrying one night, while he was with his ‘guy friends.’ I told him I was going to the hospital in the next two hours if the bleeding didn’t stop (I didn’t know if it was a scare or not). He lived 15 minutes from me, and his guy friends lived 20 minutes from me. My mom ended up taking me because he never made it to the hospital. I called his friends (mutual friends) to see if he ever left their house after I left the hospital with the news that I’d lost the baby. They had no idea what I was talking about because they hadn’t seen or talked to him in over a month.
He didn’t make it to my house until five hours after I got home from the hospital with a few hickeys on his neck. He said he pinched himself. Lies. The girl he was sleeping with also ended up messaging me later on in the week, being a total brat and telling me she was happy I miscarried. Ended up sending me pictures of the two of them having intimate relations. They ended up harassing me for a month after that and would throw red painted dolls at my front door to remind me of my miscarriage. It messed me up.
I went through so many emotions and depression from everything that fie months later, I called my family to say goodbye as I was planning to end my life. My family ended up rushing to me and helped me get through everything.
I stayed with him for half a year after all of this happened where he physically, mentally, verbally, and emotionally abused me. He blamed me for him cheating on me and continued to cheat anyway. I was too depressed and afraid to leave. I ended up throwing him out of my house, and blocking and deleting him from everything. He and the girl he was cheating on me with kept harassing me for months after I cut them out.
I didn’t speak to my family at the time due to a falling out. It wasn’t until I called them, saying goodbye during my attempt, that my family and I became close. They forced me to move back home until I was better. I lived with them for a year until I had to get away from everything. I ended up moving from Michigan to Chicago, Illinois. My ex kept trying to find ways to contact me and find me so I had to keep blocking and moving. I landed an awesome job out there, and things were looking up. A very good client of mine kept trying to get to know me for half a year and I had a huge wall up. I finally gave in and opened up, and we’re now happily married for two years, and trying for our first child.
It took a long while for things to get on an upswing, but I’m extremely happy now. What happened still leaves my tummy turning with anxiety, but I have the most understanding and supportive husband I could ever ask for.”
He Inadvertedly Introduced Her To Her Next Boyfriend
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“My wife moved to another city for a job. We did the long-distance thing for a while, but she was having trouble making friends. She asked me to help her break the ice with a few people from a social group she’d been lurking in. I went out and made her a couple of friends.
After that, this one dude started hanging around a lot. I thought nothing of it because I have a lot of female friends where I live. Then he started giving her ‘just because’ gifts. I didn’t like it, but after 15 years, I felt I owed her my trust. Then texts started getting fewer, especially on nights and weekends. Phone calls came only late at night or while she was at work. There were just a lot of reasons not to visit, be visited, or meet up like we were supposed.
We had two fun vacations planned for the summer. My wife was irritable and distant. Not much for the intimate times. End of the last vacation, we need to break up. No surprise, the distance was wearing on us both. Let’s be friends. She still wanted me to do stuff for her, solve tech problems, iron out problems with shared credit cards. We talked about couple’s counseling, but she never followed through. Eventually, it came out she’d been with the dude all along. I filed for divorce that day.”
The ‘Find My iPhone’ App Came Through For Him!
“I caught my girlfriend.
She came home from a weekend at some theater thing at the college we both attended. I looked at her ‘find my iPhone’ thing online, and saw that she was at a hotel. She said she didn’t have anywhere to stay as the friend she usually stayed with wasn’t allowed to have people in the dorm anymore. Whatever. The night she got back, she took off her shirt and had this black lace bra. This was weird because she didn’t really wear cute/hot stuff like that. The next day I was doing laundry and found a black lace thong and a lacy black shawl thing.
Later on, I asked her about it and she said she hadn’t worn them yet. Apparently, they were a surprise for me for Valentine’s Day next week. So maybe this is slightly disgusting, but I went and looked at the panties. They had womanly residue on them. I texted her and said that it’s all lies. That night I pressured her until she finally said some dude had forced himself on her and did stuff to her. ‘I basically got assaulted,’ she said. So I had her call him, I talked to him and found out they had been sleeping together for a long time. Later that jerk sent me texts of her saying incredibly inappropriate stuff.
She was a freak, but we never slept together…ever.”
He Was Consistently Cheated On For A Long Time…
“First Time:
Her sister uploaded a photo of her kissing her boyfriend on MySpace (yeah, 11 years ago).
Second Time:
She had switched her cell phone to my account. Three days before our wedding, I was trying to figure out something on my bill when I found that she’s up until 3 AM every night, talking to her other boyfriend.
We got married. Because we were stupid.
Third Time:
A guy came to my place of work and told me he just saw my wife at the movies on a date and snuggling with another guy.
I confronted her. She called me a liar and accused me of cheating.
Lots of things could qualify for the ‘Fourth Time’ here. Suffice it to say, one morning a few months later, I opened her laptop just to check my email and found out she had a message thread with a guy from ‘First Time’ and they were both talking about when to call each other (when I was at work and his CURRENT WIFE was asleep).
Really crummy stuff.
I confronted her. She moved out. I then dated three women in a row who all cheated on me. I used to pick real winners. Once again I discovered via social media postings others made or accidentally stumbling upon messages. I should point out that all of these cheaters were ‘good Mormon girls.’
Alas, I’m married now. We’re both really straightforward and I’d be shocked to be cheated on at this point. But I’ve learned what heartbreak is and I wouldn’t wish it on anyone.”